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But the fruit of the Spirit is …self-control. And against such things, there is no law.
Galatians 5:22
I was called to my supervisor’s office. We have a very good relationship, so the request to close the door was odd. It was easy to see he was a bit uncomfortable as his hand motioned for me to take a seat. Immediately, many voices bombarded me. “See, you are going to be fired.”
Regardless of where the disciple is, he must always be alert to the potential onslaught of the enemy AND our fleshly habits to entertain those thoughts.
The boss started the conversation with a few minor department issues. We were both aware of these, and I knew this was just the warm-up. He then brought up an item bothering “another department leader.” Given the subject, I knew exactly who this department leader was. He was an older man and not a very pleasant person. Let’s call him ‘James.’
Several times when we were working on a project together, James would begin grousing about the company and upper management decisions. I always had self-control in these conversations and did not join in the bellyaching (you can use the term ‘bitching’ if you are so inclined.) And it was easy to see that he was miffed at my not joining the sessions.
He was often heard holding these sessions with other co-workers.
My supervisor reviewed a few more bothersome items James had with me. We devised a plan to solve the problems, and the meeting ended. But now, the Holy Spirit began prepping me for the days ahead. “You will have to be alert to have self-control at numerous points during the day.” I appreciated the heads-up on the battle plan. Being prepared, I not only was tolerant of James but actually began to bless him. Greeting him warmly, assisting in some of his department needs and touching his arm as we passed in the hall.
But is this plan not appropriate for each and every day? This is normal life, to walk operating with self-control. To exercise self-control is the greatest mark of a free man. Self-control is not just about restraining from certain actions. It's about managing our emotions, aligning our thoughts with The Holy Spirit's, and reigning in our anger, desires, and fantasies.
Daily Battle Order
Thinking about James, I was reminded of how James 4 says, ‘The Holy Spirit, who has been sent to make His permanent home in us, has a passionate desire to control us to the point of envy of any control indwelling sin (or other spirits) may have over us.’ Today, exercise self-control by joining your will to that of the Holy Spirit.
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