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“…to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.” ~Ephesians 5:26-27
As husbands, we often focus on protecting and providing for our wives, but these are merely our vocational roles. Our true calling is to be their spiritual priest and guide, nurturing their faith and supporting their journey toward holiness.
A good priest is both relational and knowledgeable—loving, approachable, and well-grounded in scripture. In Ephesians 4–6, Paul offers guidance on many relationships, yet it is in marriage that he emphasizes holiness, highlighting the unique spiritual responsibility husbands have.
This responsibility is crucial. Humanity’s fall began when Adam failed to communicate God’s instruction accurately to Eve, opening a path for deception (Genesis 2:16-17, 3:1-4). This reminds us that our role as priests to our wives isn’t optional; it’s essential for spiritual protection.
My wife is strong, independent, and accomplished. She doesn’t “need” me to protect or provide for her—she’s perfectly capable on her own. But being her priest is different. As her husband, I have the privilege of being a vessel for God’s guidance in her life. We share our deepest challenges, dreams, and questions, and together we seek God’s wisdom. If I weren’t there, that spiritual support would be missed.
Daily Battle Order:
Husbands, prioritize your role as priest over protector and provider. Ask your wife where she needs spiritual support and make this a regular practice. Invite the Holy Spirit to lead you in growing both knowledge and relationship. In fulfilling your calling as priest, the other roles will naturally follow.
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